Why Your Dog’s Behaviour Isn’t Bad - It’s Communication

If you’re struggling with your dog’s behaviour - maybe they bark, lunge on walks, growl at visitors, or just seem “too much”  I want to start by saying this:

You are not alone, and your dog isn’t bad. In fact, your dog is doing the only thing they can do right now, they’re trying to cope with the world the only way they know how.

And that behaviour you’re seeing? It’s communication.

Behaviour is a Message, Not a Personality

Dogs don’t act out of spite or stubbornness. They react based on how they feel whether that’s fear, frustration, anxiety, or overwhelm. When we take a moment to pause and really look at what’s going on behind the behaviour, we start to see a very different story.

A growl might be saying, “I’m scared.”

Barking might mean, “I need space.”

Pulling on the lead might simply be, “I can’t cope with all this stimulation.”

When we learn to listen to those messages, everything changes.

You’re Not Failing Your Dog

As a behaviourist, I work with so many lovely, well-meaning people who feel like they’re failing — who worry their dog is too reactive, too nervous, too aggressive. But the truth is, you’re probably doing the best you can with the knowledge you have. And that’s enough.

Behaviour problems aren’t a sign of a bad dog or a bad guardian, they’re a sign that something deeper needs support. And with the right help, those struggles can soften.

There is Support — and It Doesn’t Have to Be Harsh

I work with dogs using kind, ethical methods based in understanding and trust. There’s no quick-fix or punishment-based approach here just thoughtful, personalised support that helps your dog feel safe and understood.

If you’re dealing with reactivity, aggression, or anxiety, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

You might want to explore my Reactive to Relaxed programme for dogs who find the world a bit too much.

Or if your dog is showing more intense behaviours like growling, snapping, or biting, my Aggression Support package could be the right fit.

And if you’re unsure where to start, I’m always happy to chat and point you in the right direction — no pressure, ever.

Let’s Shift the Narrative Together

Your dog isn’t broken. They’re communicating. And with patience, understanding, and the right tools, things really can get better, for both of you.

If this post resonates with you, feel free to get in touch or explore more resources on my website. I’m here when you’re ready.