Understanding Dog Body Language: The Subtle Signs You Might Miss
When we share our lives with dogs, it’s easy to assume we always know how they feel. After all, wagging tails mean happiness and growling means anger… right? Well, not always. Dogs are incredibly expressive, but sometimes their signals are subtle and when we miss those signs, it can lead to stress, frustration, or even behaviour struggles.
As a dog behaviour consultant, one of the most valuable skills I teach my clients is how to “listen” to their dogs without words. Once you can read the smaller signals, you’ll understand your dog’s feelings much more clearly, and help them feel safe and supported.
Why Body Language Matters
Dogs can’t tell us when they’re uncomfortable, anxious, or excited with words. Instead, they use their body. Spotting the early signs of stress or worry allows you to step in before your dog feels the need to bark, growl, or lunge. In other words – body language is your best prevention tool.
Common Signs Owners Miss
Here are a few subtle cues to watch for:
Lip licking or yawning (outside of mealtimes or tiredness) can signal stress.
Turning the head away or avoiding eye contact often means “I need a little space.”
Tense body posture – even if the tail is wagging, stiffness can mean unease.
Slow blinking or squinting eyes may show your dog is unsure or tired.
Shaking off (like after a bath) often happens when a dog is releasing tension.
What to Do When You Notice These Signs
If you spot one of these signals, it doesn’t mean your dog is “being naughty.” Instead, they’re communicating that they need help. You can:
Give them space from whatever is worrying them.
Redirect them to something safe and enjoyable (like sniffing on a walk).
Keep experiences short and positive, rather than pushing them too far.
The Power of Listening
When your dog realises you notice and respond to their signals, they feel safer – and their trust in you grows. This trust is the foundation of good training and a happy partnership.
